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说“我爱你” -- 第353期英语美文赏析 【2011.2.1】

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发表于 2011-1-31 12:28:36 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
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    大家好!我是帅帅,很高兴又跟大家见面了。马上就要过新年了,在这里先给大家拜个早年吧。:loveliness: 祝大家新春愉快,兔年吉祥!今天一起来分享的文章是Say "I Love You"《说“我爱你”》。有自己心爱的人,愿意对他好,为他付出不计较回报。或许因为不善言辞,或许是羞于表达,我们宁愿将一句“我爱你”深深地埋在心底。今天,一位先生将要跟大家分享说“我爱你”的心路历程,想不想知道,好了,请静下心来,跟我一起走进今天的美文……


                             Say "I Love You"  说“我爱你”
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In a class I teach for adults, I gave the class homework.The assignment was to go to someone you love and tell them you love them.

      

我给成人班的学生布置了家庭作业。作业的内容就是对你爱的人说一声“我爱你”。

     

It doesn't sound like a very tough assignment, until you realize that most of the men were over 35 and were raised in the generation of men that were taught that expressing emotions is not "macho".

   

如果你意识到他们大多年纪在35岁以上,而且他们这一代人从小就认为表达自己的感情是不够“男子汉”的行为,你就会明白这个作业并不那么容易。

      

At the beginning of our next class, I asked if someone wanted to share his experience. A man raised his hand. He appeared quite moved and a bit shaken.

   

第二次上课的时候,我问是否有人愿意和大家分享他的经历。一位男同学举起了手,他显得十分激动,而且有一些颤抖。

      

He began, "Dennis, I was quite angry with you last week when you gave us this assignment. I didn't feel that I had anyone to say those words to. But as I was driving home my conscience started talking to me. It was telling me that I knew exactly who I needed to say 'I love you' to. You see, five years ago, my father and I had a serious disagreement and never resolved it since that time. We avoided seeing each other unless we had to be at Christmas or other family gatherings. So last Tuesday by the time I got home I had convinced myself I was going to tell my father I loved him."

     

他开始讲他的经历:“丹尼斯,你上周给我们布置这个作业的时候,我很生气。我不觉得我需要和谁说这几个字。但是,当我开车回家的时候,我的良心和我进行了对话。良心确切地告诉我我需要和谁说‘我爱你’。五年前,我和我的父亲有过一次严重的意见不合,而且一直没有解决。除了圣诞和其他的家庭聚会以外,我们尽量避免见面。所以,上周二当我到家的时候,我说服我自己我应该告诉我的父亲我爱他。”

     

"It's weird, but just making that decision seemed to lift a heavy load off my chest."

   

“虽然有点儿奇怪,但是当我做了这个决定的时候,好像是搬走了压在我心头的石头。”

     

"The next day at 5.30p.m., I was at my parents' house ringing the doorbell. It was Dad who answered the door."

   

第二天下午5:30的时候,我按响了父母家的门铃。是爸爸开的门。”

   

     

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"I didn't waste any time — I took one step in the door and said, 'Dad, I just came over to tell you that I love you.'"

我没有浪费任何时间,向前迈了一步,对他说:‘爸爸,我来只想告诉你我爱你。’”

      

"It was as if a transformation came over my dad. Before my eyes his face softened, the wrinkles seemed to disappear and he began to cry. He reached and hugged me and said, 'I love you too, son, but I've never been able to say it.'"

   

“爸爸好像换了一个人似的。他的脸变得柔和,脸上的皱纹也似乎消失了。爸爸哭了。他走上前抱住我说:‘儿子,我也爱你,但是我一直没有说出口。’”

      

"It was such a precious moment."  

“那一刻真的很珍贵。”

     

"But that's not even my point. Two days after that visit, my dad, who had a heart attack and ended up in hospital, unconscious. I don't know if he'll make it."


“但是我并不是想表达这个观点。两天之后,父亲因为心脏病突发住进了医院,昏迷不醒。我不知道他能否度过这一关。”

   

"So my message to all of you in this class is this: Don't wait to do the things you know need to be done. What if I had waited to tell my dad — maybe I will never get the chance again! Take the time to do what you need to do and do it now!"


“我的意思是想告诉班里所有的同学:不要等到你必须要做的时候才去做。如果我没有对父亲说我可能永远都不会再有机会了!抓紧时间去做你要做的事情吧,现在就做!”

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有些话可以不说,有些人却可能因此错过。记住,别让父母的爱成为永远的等待。爱他就大胆说出来吧,只此一句,便足够让人幸福盈溢。有些事、有些人是难以复制的,错过了就永远不再会拥有,所以记得珍惜身边的人和事。等一下就怎样怎样,过几天再去看望谁谁,不要总是拖延和推辞了,生命经不起这样的等待。

   

越是亲近的人,我们越容易忽视,以为一切都是应该,很多东西都可以忽略。最爱的人我们反而疏忘了对他感情的照顾与慰藉。站起来发言的这位先生是勇敢的,他大胆地向父亲表白,同时也获得了父亲对他爱的回馈。你呢?我们呢?好好想一想……

   

好了,今天的美文结束了。希望大家能够有所收获,相信量的积累会给你一个质的突破。每天一篇美文,魅力我们的一生。感谢大家一直以来的支持和鼓励。祝您愉快!:loveliness: :victory:

u=2126439864,1951041624&fm=15&gp=0.jpg 点击进入下期美文:《幸福由内而生》

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洛依辰妃 + 10 + 116 嘿嘿,帅帅额,来看你了哟,美文还是看得这么享受............
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发表于 2011-1-31 16:07:38 | 显示全部楼层
grab the sofa  first and then read it

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hdws + 16 hehe,dear,you are so cute and full of pa

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发表于 2011-1-31 16:25:19 | 显示全部楼层
beautiful!
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发表于 2011-1-31 20:05:06 | 显示全部楼层
i will take the time to do what i need to do and do it now!

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hdws + 16 Great,you are right,dear!Happy New Year!

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发表于 2011-2-1 09:30:58 | 显示全部楼层
we should do it too.

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hdws + 10 Yeah,that's right!Happy New Year,dear!O(

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发表于 2011-2-1 09:40:14 | 显示全部楼层
A simple word,but the deep meaning."I love you"someone may think no need to say it.If you don't say why they know your heart,So just say it and take the time do what you want to do.

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发表于 2011-2-1 10:45:22 | 显示全部楼层
Somethimes, it is just simple can change out life and drive us to a totally different direction.

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发表于 2011-2-1 11:16:37 | 显示全部楼层
Don't wait to do the things you know need to be done. What if I had waited to tell my dad — maybe I will never get the chance again! Take the time to do what you need to do and do it now!
不要等到你必须要做的时候才去做。如果我没有对父亲说我可能永远都不会再有机会了!抓紧时间去做你要做的事情吧,现在就做!

Facing the people we love,we usually forget to convey our true feelings to them and just believe they understand it.After reading this article,I suddenly realize that it is so important to say I love you instead of placing it deep in mind....

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发表于 2011-2-1 11:29:47 | 显示全部楼层
Take the time to do what you need to do and do it now!"

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发表于 2011-2-1 13:14:26 | 显示全部楼层
Don't wait to do the things you know need to be done.

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发表于 2011-2-1 16:49:14 | 显示全部楼层
it's      true

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 楼主| 发表于 2011-2-1 18:33:11 | 显示全部楼层
回复 7# tjsniper


    tjsniper,你是不是不小心把chang our life拼成chang out life了?没关系的,你的发言很棒呢!继续努力哦!一起加油!:loveliness::victory:
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发表于 2011-2-1 23:00:29 | 显示全部楼层
Don't wait to do the things you know need to be done.

Take the time to do what you need to do and do it now.

错过了就永远不再会拥有,所以记得珍惜身边的人和事。等一下就怎样怎样,过几天再去看望谁谁,不要总是拖延和推辞了,生命经不起这样的等待。

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发表于 2011-2-2 17:20:50 | 显示全部楼层
i feel it late to say i love you

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发表于 2011-2-3 10:29:32 | 显示全部楼层
it's right,but most of us are always neglect it,until one day we regret .

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